the gift of family

Christmas was different this year. The differences helped me realize that Christmas is more than gifts and bragging rights. It's a time to spend with family and enjoy time together. Circumstances that the Lord brought into my life this year helped me realize how important it is to spend time with family.

Christmas in our family always started on Christmas Eve. Grandpa Frank would come to our house for Christmas dinner. He would stay over until nearly midnight. Just before he would leave Dad would let us open one present each. This year was...different. Grandpa passed away one week ago today. Dad did NOT want us to be by ourselves this year, so Auntie M, Uncle Rusty, Paul, Timothy, Peter, Andrew, & Arrena came to our house to celebrate Christmas Eve. It was different, but it was a good different. Paul & I took the opportunity to teach Arrena how to play ping-pong.

Christmas morning has always started with omletes--yum! No change here. I was the first one of the kids up and Dad made me a delicious omlete. Dad made omletes for each of us as we woke up and came into the living room. Omletes. Eggy golden goodness filled with olives, onions, cheese, & ham. I LOVE it!! After breakfast we would open stockings, the remaining presents, & then head over to Grandmommy & Papa's to celebrate Christmas with Mom's family. Well, we haven't gone to grandma & grandpa's in a couple years--they have spent Christmas in Texas with Uncle Russell, Aunt Debbie, & Carena. So, Christmas is just our family. Different. Our gift to each other this year was different too. Rather than spending money on gifts that would set gather dust laying around the house, my parents decided to put the money they would have spent on gifts toward making sure that Crystal, Jarid, & I can stay in college. I think it's the best gift I have ever been given.

This Christmas I realized that Christmas is more than snow, trees, lights, & gifts. It's about family. The love & friendship of family is unique to every individual. Family is the best gift that can be given or received at Christmas.

drip, drip, drop

I am not one to openly cry, but yesterday, the tears came often. Just after noon yesterday Dad informed me that Grandpa Frank had passed away.

Christmas is going to be different this year. Amidst the lazy falling snowflakes tears will fall each time we remember Grandpa. Grandpa Frank always came over for Christmas dinner on Christmas Eve. He drank coffee and slipped slices of ham in to Greyson's dish, always claiming that dogs should get to celebrate Christmas too. He called me Grandma--I never really knew why, but I liked it because it made me feel special. He would never leave until he got a kiss from each of us grandkids. He is one of the very few people I would let kiss me, let alone me kiss them. Tears will fall when I become selfish at all the things he is going to miss: me graduating from college, bringing home a boy, getting married, having kids. Since I left for college Grandpa kept asking where my boyfriend was. He thought it odd that I was waiting on God's timing, but he would relish in the fact that he was the "only" boy getting a kiss from me.

I'm not going to lie or try to sugar-coat the facts, as far as we know, Grandpa Frank was not saved. I think that is what hurts the most. Knowing that for the past 15+ years my family has been a faithful witness to him and he rejected the free gift of eternal life. He was an amazing man. I have never seen someone display such undying love. He cared about each of us and wanted us to succeed in life. He never quite undersood why Crystal, Jarid, & I chose to attend a Christian college, but he could see our dedication to serve the Lord.

But, God works in ALL circumstances. My uncle and cousin seem to be open to the Gospel right now. The death of my grandpa affected them greatly--they are thinking more than ever before about spiritual things. Again I am reminded of my life verse, "And we know that ALL things work together for good, to them that love God, to them who are the called according to His purpose." There is nothing I can do for my grandpa now, but God has given my family an amazing opportunity to be a witness to my Dad's family.

Will I cry at the funeral? Yes, if not outwardly, my heart will be crying. But my tears will only last during this life. I have hope and confidence in eternal salvation. I know exactly where I am going when I die. My purpose now is to show Christ's love to my family so I can see them for all eternity.

winter ball

December is such a beautiful time of year. The snow falls and makes everything a winter wonderland. The wind, though terribly cold, adds a natural rosieness to everyone's cheeks--a fresh look that cannot be achieved with makeup. Everything seems to whisper of beauty and romance.

Just before a hard week of finals, Maranatha's choirs and orchestra performed Handel's Messiah. It was amazing to see how many families from the community came to hear our students perform. It was as beautiful and romantic as the pure white world outside the Gymnatorium. Kristin, Kat, Khristina, Tim, and I went together on Friday evening to enjoy the beautiful production. It was a beautiful "winter ball".

After the concert, we met up with Jarid and then headed over to Watertown Bowl with about 50 other Maranatha students for a different kind of winter ball: late night of bowling--11:30-1:30 a.m. We had so much fun! Some of Jarid's roommates and friends joined us so we could fill two lanes. After the first game we enacted the "push-up" rule--for every pin left standing at the end of your turn you had to do one push-up. I'm not going to lie, I had to do the most. I can tell you, however, that I had the best form--whatever that is worth.

poor unfortunate soul 2

God chooses to work in amazing ways. He allows people to be the instrument by which He blesses and encourages His children.

Not to long ago, my computor died without cause or explination. It was a bummer and a slight inconvienience, but not a detrimental loss. Just before Thanksgiving, my aunt let me know that she had a surprise waiting for me when I got home. I refused to guess what it might be--I tend to dream too high too often, and I did not want to prepare myself for a let down. Early in the afternoon the day before Thanksgiving my mom and I went to my aunt's house to drop off my dead computer--my uncle was going to see if he could fix it for me. Instead of fixing my computer, he gave me a new-to-me laptop! He had heard through one of my cousins that my computer had died and decided to give me one as a gift before my aunt even knew I had a need!

God is so good! I was truly able to say that I am thankful for the way He provides, especially when He chooses to work through those we love most, like our family.